Sometimes when I am
struggling the best thing for me to do is write. This is usually a quick jot in my
journals. This morning I have been
writing. Here are somethings that I am chewing on and I thought "maybe
they could help someone out there too"
Relationship is hard
work. People will hurt you, it's inevitable. The choice is who you give the key
to your heart.
Relationship is supposed
to give you a connection that makes you a better person.
You can LOVE without
trusting. Work just as hard on yourself as you expect the other person to be
working. Trust is a two way street.
How do you know if a
past hurtful relationship is worth working on 1) is there confession 2) Is
there ownership of the hurt that has been caused 3) Is there remorse. Not a
guilty conscious but real remorse. 4) Is there change? OR does the same problem
keep happening over and over again?
Does that other person
surround themselves with other healthy people? Who are their other friends?
There is no rush back into
a relationship that has been hurtful in the past.
As far as it lies with
me I will conduct my life and relationships under God's rules for health and
success in life.
“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at
peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18
Reference: Beyond Boundaries By Dr. John Townsend
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