Adam and Eve hid in the Garden. Ashamed of what they had done. Hiding in secret…
It starts off with a conversation about hiding food from one another. It eeerks me to no end. I hate hiding food. It. Is. So. Stupid. Yet, this family does it often. Maybe because we have three growing teenage boys. Maybe because we live on the mountain and I will forget to pick it up next time I am in town. Maybe it’s because we all get greedy at times and want the best for our selves. All that aside, things done in secret piss me off.
Number one rule for loss of trust. Do something in secret. Then let the cat out of the bag…
Some of the worst hurts are done in secret. Gossip. Adultery. Thievery.
We hide it away. Hoping no one will find out.
If you can’t do it out in the open… what makes it honest?
In my book, life should be lived out loud. Honest. Not kept in the dark. Behind doors. Hidden in the underwear drawer. Pretzel M&M’s will go stale in there..
When we hide our morsels and after the stank has risen. Trust is lost. Hurt is 10 times worse.
Let’s avoid it. Let’s Communicate. Tell the Stuff. Hear the Stuff. Listen to the Stuff. It matters. To the heart.
Life is best shared. In fact life isn’t life unless it’s shared. That means we will get hurt. Our favorite stuff will be consumed by others. Our food. Our stories. Our money. Our homes. I don’t think it should be any other way.
I dare you. To tell the truth.
Nothing is covered up that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known.
Want to see what else God says about secrets?
Ecclesiastes12:14, Matthew 10:26-28, 12:36-37 Ephesians 4:25, 4:29 Romans 2:16